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Guide to Anime – Yandere

June 20, 2012 By: Nopy Category: Anime

Most of you probably already know what a tsundere is, they’re found in half of the anime out there, but today I’d like to discuss another character type that often appears in anime and manga, the yandere. The term yandere comes from the Japanese words ‘yanderu’, meaning to be sick or mentally ill, and ‘deredere’, meaning to love or show affection. Like a tsundere, a yandere does not show affection in a manner that is considered normal. Yandere are almost always bishoujo, but the more attractive they are, the more they lack in sanity.

Based on the Hot-Crazy Scale idea, there should be differing degrees to which a girl can be yandere. In order to better understand them, I’ve split them up into 4 groups: those that are possible yanderes, almost yanderes, deadly yanderes, and cannibal yanderes. Note that regardless of which category a character fits in, they’re all crazy.

Possible Yandere

A possible yandere is the least crazy of the yandere family and is normally not thought of as a yandere. I mention them here because yanderes typically start at this stage. They are the jealous girlfriends that you see in TV dramas. Possible yanderes will not resort to (extreme) physical violence, but will use abusive language against rivals in love. They are also very likely to grudges against people for the rest of their lives.
Examples: Ayase Aragaki (Ore no Imouto), Hitagi Senjougahara (Bakemonogatari)

Almost Yandere

As the name implies, an almost yandere is someone that exhibits almost all yandere traits. If a romantic rival appears an almost yandere will resort to violence or nasty schemes in order to scare them away. This may involve pushing/shoving, poisoning, and framing them for a crime. Actions of an almost yandere stop short of murder as they still have enough sanity to realize the consequences of their actions. It’s what separates them from a full-fledged yandere. If you break-up with an almost yandere, she will attempt to keep you through seduction, rape, and/or locking you up in a basement.
Examples: Kaede Fuyou (Shuffle), Ringo Oginome (Mawaru Penguindrum)

Deadly Yandere

The most common and recognized yanderes are the deadly yanderes. They have little regard for human life as long as they can stay with their beloved. If a deadly yandere’s love interest so much as talks to another girl, that girl might disappear the next day. The homicidal tendencies of a deadly yandere are hard to spot as she puts up a very convincing “sweet girl” facade. In the event that she suspects her lover is cheating, or has lost interest in her, she will try to kill him in order to keep him to herself forever. After all, a guy can’t cheat on or dump his girlfriend if he’s dead.
Examples: Kotonoha (School Days), Rena Ryuugu (Higurashi no Naku Koro ni), Miu Asakura (Bungaku Shoujo), Yuno Gasai (Mirai Nikki)

Cannibal Yandere

The most dangerous type of yandere is the cannibal yandere. Not only will you end up dead, but there might not even be any remains to bury once a cannibal yandere is done with you. These yandere believe that by eating their lover’s flesh, they will be together forever in body and spirit. After consuming her lover, a cannibal yandere may pretend to be him to prove that they are now one.
Example: Aya Kaniba (Karin Airmail)

So with that said, what is it about yandere that makes them so appealing? While most guys would dump their girlfriend if they knew she was a possible yandere, there are those who seek out deadly yandere. There are two main reasons for this:

1. Yandere are usually high up on the hot scale and their outward personalities are initially tame. As Barney from How I Met Your Mother would tell you, if her hot level exceeds her crazy level, then go for it.

2. Some people like the idea of having someone that is absolutely devoted to them, even if it means risking death.

A girl with yandere tendencies is probably the closest I’d get to any of these characters. If you are interested in some yandere-centric anime, I would suggest Higurashi no Naku Koro ni, Bungaku Shoujo, School Days, and Mirai Nikki.

or a more in-depth analysis of yanderes and how to survive if you encounter one, I recommend the Yandere Survival Guide. This article has been posted and reposted on the internet for at least 4 years now (circa 2008), so I don’t know who the original author is, but it has everything you need to know if you encounter a yandere. Here’s a saved text file in case that forum thread goes down like the ones before it:

If people are interested, I may also discuss the wonderful world of yangire:

More information on deres can be found in Kai’s Guide to Deres.


This post is part of the Guide to Anime project. For more guides on various topics related to anime, check out the project page.

EDIT: This post was originally written a year ago, but I forgot to post it. That’s why there’s a lack of Yuno pics.

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32 Comments to “Guide to Anime – Yandere”

  1. interesting post about Yandere.
    cannibal yandere!? how scary is that! XD

    Well, I liked Yuno from Mirai Nikki a lot, she was so cute ^^
    Also Rena from Higurashi no Naku Koro ni, even though she was scary with her yandere face expression.
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    • Cannibal yandere are definitely the scariest, I wouldn’t want to run into one. I think yanderes make interesting anime characters, they just wouldn’t be someone you would want to meet in real life.

    • Actually Rena is yangire and not yandere. Rena hasn’t showed any positiveness toward Keiichi nor anything romantic.

  2. Hahah, great article man. I can see why a guy would go for one because of the girls devotion. Just a shame ive never met one either, would be an interesting experience if I was to survive of course.

    But what about a guy yandere?
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    • If you could somehow keep a yandere happy, she’d probably make a good girlfriend.

      I think there are a lot of examples of guy yanderes in real life. They’re the stalkers that think celebrities are in love with them. I don’t think many people would be interested in a story about a stalker.

  3. Damn it, I like Yanderes and I hopes for some recommendation, but since it’s ME, I’ve seen all of the above :(

    • Wow, that’s some dedication to yanderes. Unfortunately, I listed all the ones I could think of.

    • koharu no hibi, hiai mousou, rebirth: the lunatic taker, oniichan control, Monster Musume No Iru Nichijou, Oniichan dakedo Ai Sae Areba Kankeinai yo ne (character progression is going nowhere), Seishun Pop!, Hidan no Aria (side character), Shinigami-sama to 4-nin no Kanojo (stupid harem, but has it’s parts).

  4. That’s nice. Especially Hitagi, I always had trouble categorizing her. She is a self-proclaimed tsundere, but she looks more like a yandere to me, then again, she’s not as destructive as other yandere, so putting her in “possible yandere” sounds perfectly right.

    Honestly, I had never come across a level 4 yandere though, the best I had come across is level 3. In that level 4 yandere pic, it looks like it’s from a manga. Is it from Karin Airmail?
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    • Oops, I missed some references to the levels, that was left over from when I wrote the first draft of this post last year, they should refer to possible yandere, almost yandere, etc.

      And yes, that cannibal yandere is from the Karin Airmail manga. It’s a short arc, but it’s good.

  5. Possible and almost yandere are fine, but no more than that. It’s a shame you used Kaede for Almost yandere, knowing that it was an original anime feature.
    She was an angel in the visual novel…:P
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    • I love Kaede, her route was the only one I finished in Shuffle. In fact, I got the game just to play her route, I usually don’t play visual novels. Unfortunately, before last year, Kaede was pretty much the standard go-to girl for the definition of a girl turning yandere.

  6. I didn’t know there were so many Yandere anime out there! That cannibalism thing was a bit too much for me though.
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  7. I didn’t know that there’s actually a cannibal yandere. That’s really disturbing. Now, I wonder if there’s an actual medical term for this kind of mental illness.
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    • I’m sure there is a medical term for it. After all, you can find people in the news who have killed and eaten their lovers.

  8. I don’t know that there are something like Cannibal Yandere. It’ In a sense it’s right, but in front of common sense it’s so wrong 0.0

    And Miu Asakura is included into the 3rd type I see. Guess her way of keeping Konoha is pretty crazy after all.

  9. Yanderes are scary no matter which category they belong to. Haven’t watched any series with deadly or cannibal yandere, I’m curious, I might check out some titles you mentioned.

    I really enjoy reading your Guide to Anime posts. ^^

  10. I will cut off my arm and offer it to the cannibal yandere.

  11. where i can read the cannibal yandere one?karin airmail??

  12. I will never, ever, EVER, find a Yandere girlfriend again……
    I need to make my friend stop thinking about it, he loves Yanderes,
    Well, off to the gaming centre..

  13. This scares me to a point

  14. Hey what is the manga called with the cannibal?

  15. fakebuster says:

    You are hopless. Hitagi is a tsundere-kuudere type + abusive language isn’t a typical characteristic of an kuudere or yandere anyway. There is not such thing as a almost yandere.

    It is like calling a man almost gay, because to be gay you have da necessity to be male. ;)

    • I have to disagree. Hitagi does not fit into any established character archetype, but draws on many of the “deres”, making her almost like all of them. There are even arguments over what she is:

      To build off your example of a gay man, it’s like how a metrosexual is considered “almost homosexual” because of some overlapping stereotypes, but isn’t homosexual.

  16. An example of a male cannibal yandere can be Chihiro from the game Desperate Love Feast.


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